FIND YOUR INNER SELF?

In today's Materialistic lives we have become so busy ...that we tend to forget ourselves.We forget to think- What is the real purpose of our existence and Where are we heading towards?
Its not that we don't realize it..Almost Everyone does...One time or the Other this thought comes to our mind, but the Worldly chains around us of Past and Future Dominate and we ignore the Present.
An Average person always thinks he is above average.The perception of easy and difficult is the result of one's state of being.Swatting a fly is difficult for some while killing thousands is easy for others like terrorists.
Dropping the ego is easy when we realize that we are less than a dot in this Huge and Vast Universe.It is often Very foolish of us to live in a dilemma and fake illusions that we are the Prime Centre of this Universe..and dropping the EGO becomes next to impossible when we have these illusions.
In any circle there is a centre and a circumference.If the centre of your life is hope then you will experience deficiency.If the centre of your life is enjoying the moment,living in the moment ,being total in the moment..then hope will be at the circumference..then its not a problem.
Its Easy to understand like this...
Dinning room items should be in dinning room and Toilet items should be in toilet..If they are placed elsewhere then there is a Problem.
There is no Problem in having Hopes till it is at the Circumference and not the Centre...Be alive to the present.
The very SELF with arrogance is "EGO"
And the SELF with the ignorance of what we are is also "EGO"
SELF filled with Hopes,Desires and Dreams is also "EGO"
Ego always lives in your past or future and never in your present.
That means if its centre is living in either Past or Future-Its missing the Present.
When you live in this world with EGO, your relationships will be affected.
EGO always Demand to prove its Point of View...In that State the truth or Happiness looses its Identity..and only Point of view Becomes Important...And that is when You will Demand Others to Give Respect and Will not Earn Respect.
Let us take an example of a Married Couple..If they start demanding respect from each other that means They are the beggars of Happiness and not the Giver..In Egoistic state,argument feeds the EGO...What is to Remember is that No one Will Win the Argument.You will accumulate Hatred and Grudges and Will settle Scores Sometime in future with each other.Which in turn will Ruin your Future Too.
But When you are in the State of Higher Self (space from where Possibilities arises)..Then you will indulge in Good and Healthy Discussion.
Here Happiness and Well Being Becomes Important than Point of Views.Then the relationships come into rhythm.
You start Enjoying The company and you enjoy being alone.You become Interdependent than being dependent or independent.You share your Happiness and not BEG for it.
Identity is Often mistaken as What others have said about us.For Example if somebody tells you that your are a Great Writer..You feel Pleased and Happy -that means others Validate you and your image is in others hands.
But the Fact is the Real "I" is not, what others create.Only the State of Lower Self is created by others the Higher Self is our own Essence,Presence and Awareness.
And as we have not Learnt to Live in this STATE of Higher Self that is why Till Date We are ALIENS to our INNER SELF.
Stop and Look within yourself....You will find a Higher Self within.

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