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Mar 26, 2009

YOU ARE POWERFUL

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World is going into wrong directions...People have become mean,rude and ignorant. They don't respect the sentiments,emotions,feelings and love.
World has become a mess and everything is only Materialistic and Commercial...
These are some of the very common things, we hear day to day...Or if I may say so ..
We ourselves say these things...But have we ever thought whats wrong? where is the problem?....I don't think so- we do...And even if we do...We try to find the faults everywhere, but ourselves...And here lies the PROBLEM.

We are so ignorant about our own selves that, Today Most of us are under the wrong notions/feelings of Victimization..

Today what ever is happening within our Lives, we are blaming everyone around us for our Fate/Results.We feel that because of others we are suffering.We BLAME.

Everyone says-" I am Right,I am Honest,I am Loyal,I am Truthful"....But we forget to think, If each one us is Right and Correct, then where is the Problem?....Why are our lives are not smooth and joyful??

Take a Pause...Breathe Deep and then think: Are we Really living the way- We want others to be with us???

Actually we all are not understanding that our lives are interdependent and not in our controls solely.There are numerous factors that determine the happenings of our lives.

From morning alarm, We get up dependent.

If we get up late, we blame the Clock, If the tea is late we blame the Wife and if we are late to office..We blame everyone.

And if the Fate is more Harsh we meet a Traffic Jam.Then you think I was going for a very very important meeting and now you start cursing everything..You loose your patience,your good mood,your focus and in the end Land in a Big mess in the Office...

In nut shell,what I am trying to explain is when we understand that things are beyond our control in totality, then why not understand to adjust them...If you are stuck in a Traffic jam..There is nothing in the world you can do...SO why not instead of spoiling your mood...Concentrate and plan your meeting...So that even if you reach a bit late..At least this Jam will not effect your full day...

This is one of the very simple examples of Life I have taken...This is useful in every minute and big situations of life.

Start Accepting the SITUATION..If you have no CHOICE.....Be STABLE and RELAX.

Other Wise your thoughts will take charge of your Mind and Body..And you will suffer all the problems including...High Blood Pressure,Heart Problems etc etc.

Its not the issue/situation but your added ANXIETY & STRESS that creates the mess.

Remember:" Anger is nothing but Temporary Insanity"


Same is true in relationships also...People fight on petty issues and aggravate the issue by getting head on head.

Let us take an example"If you are going on a road and you see a car driving with a High speed towards your Car...What you do???"
Most of the sensible people will divert there way and Try to escape the Head on Collision.

Why not we follow the same in Personal Issues? Even If there is some misunderstanding or different notions on a subject...Why don't we just ignore for some time...So that the Fight can be stopped...and Resolve it Later with a cool Head.
Its not important to win every arguments.

(Read the Article "Find your Inner Self" to Understand: The State of Higher self)

"PATIENCE IS THE SIGN OF POWER AND NOT THE WEAK"

Always try to bend to survive and win..The tree that bends during a storm stays,while that remains stiff, no more stays in this world.Matter is always to find the resolutions and finish the issues.But Problem often Comes is WHO WILL START FIRST?...
Take initiative and resolve it...U are POWERFUL.
IF you bend and resolve...you save relation and thereby Create Your Own DESTINY..

"You are the Creator of your Own destiny."

THOUGHT-->FEELINGS-->ATTITUDE-->
ACTION(KARMA)-->RESULT-->DESTINY

What you think is,What you achieve?

SO BE STRESS FREE AND THINK POSITIVE.
YOU ARE A WINNER.




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4 comments:

Wenny 3:16 PM, March 27, 2009  

The Blame Game!
This is just our spontaneous denial of reality. The reality of our own weaknesses.

Unless we are willing to come out of this state of denial and master our weaknesses, we will always find a scapegoat to put the blame on.

Soya,  7:46 PM, March 29, 2009  

I agree with you.
That's why I say Accept the Reality.And Strive for excellence again & again

Nyah Jones,  12:24 AM, March 30, 2009  

Absolute truth.

We don't introspect much..That's why so much of mess in the world.

U understand things so deep.I am impressed.

livelife100percent 12:57 PM, April 22, 2009  

Perfect.With a deep insight.Very well said!

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